{"id":22204,"date":"2019-12-15T10:00:24","date_gmt":"2019-12-15T04:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/?p=22204"},"modified":"2020-01-21T17:46:22","modified_gmt":"2020-01-21T12:16:22","slug":"a-journey-from-depression-to-sitting-besides-amitabh-bachchan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/patient-stories\/a-journey-from-depression-to-sitting-besides-amitabh-bachchan\/","title":{"rendered":"A Journey From Depression To Sitting Besides A Superstar"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h1>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow<\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0 \u00a0The important thing is not to stop imagining&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This is the mantra of my life, Hi, I am Abhishek, a 17-year-old boy of a middle-class family from the city Lucknow aka <strong>&#8220;Nawabo ka Shehar&#8221;<\/strong> where there is a famous quote for this city <strong>&#8221; Muskuraiye Aap Lucknow Me Hai&#8221;<\/strong> and I believe in it very strongly.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>(People Also Like To Read: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/being-inspire\/fall-seven-times-stand-up-eight-never-give-up\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"bookmark noopener noreferrer\">Fall Seven Times, Stand Up Eight -Never Give Up<\/a><strong>)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I was the best student in my class, full of life energy. My friend called me Mr. Allrounder. I always lived in this dream that one day I will become a famous neurosurgeon.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I had put all the effort to make my dream come true and my family always assured me, &#8220;we are with you&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">After completing my schooling, I was sent by my parents to Kota for the Medical entrance preparation, and I was also giving my best. Unfortunately, I didn&#8217;t get selected for the medical entrance examination in my first attempt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-22558 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/english-blog.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/2019\/12\/A-Journey-From-Depression-to-Sitting-Besides-Amitabh-Bachchan.jpg\" alt=\"A Journey From Depression to Sitting Besides Amitabh Bachchan\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/english-blog.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/2019\/12\/A-Journey-From-Depression-to-Sitting-Besides-Amitabh-Bachchan.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/english-blog.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/2019\/12\/A-Journey-From-Depression-to-Sitting-Besides-Amitabh-Bachchan-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/english-blog.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/2019\/12\/A-Journey-From-Depression-to-Sitting-Besides-Amitabh-Bachchan-768x384.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">However, the surprise, my friend who always scored lesser marks than me got selected in the medical entrance examination.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But I never lost my hope and decided to do the preparation once again but alas luck was not with me and I did not get clear the entrance even in the second attempt. As the famous proverb &#8220;throw a lucky man in the sea and he came out with the fish&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">At the same time, family and social pressure had peaked over time. My parents also started comparing me with the other children.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I started feeling like a loser. I felt that there is something wrong with me and all my dreams were a myth.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">These thoughts deeply entered into my mind which started making me restless. I even started avoiding talking and going out with my friends. I laid on the bed the whole day.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I started to avoid my family phone calls from my family. I stopped interacting with the teachers, and friends in the class as well. In short, I was dealing with a mental illness and I had no idea about that.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But, I was quite lucky as my parents came to meet me at Kota. They saw lots of behavioral changes in me, as I was not the usual self. I was quite disturbed and depressed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So, my parents decided to bring me back home and then made a visit to a counselor nearby. And she confirmed, yes, I am dealing with depression which is getting serious by the day.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The counselor asked me to share my feelings, what I am going through and started my counseling session.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">During the treatment and counseling, I realized &#8220;every day is a new day with new hope for life&#8221; So I started gathering all my hope and enthusiasm and I gave my life a U-turn. I started getting involved in the things that I liked.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">One fine day by the grace of the god, I got selected for the contest Kaun Banega Millionaire. This selection became a turning point in my life. I played very well at the contest and smiled my way to the bank.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Never lose your hope and confidence in yourself. And never ignore any mental or behavioral changes in your close ones. If someone is not talking like before, then it doesn&#8217;t mean he is rude or if someone is not smiling as before that he has changed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Maybe he or she is <a href=\"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/health-care\/20-ways-to-help-a-partner-living-with-mental-illness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dealing with a mental illness<\/a>. Try to help them to recognize his health condition and also help them to come out from the turmoil.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>(You Might Also Like To Read: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/being-inspire\/we-left-the-delhi-our-child-stopped-crying\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"bookmark noopener noreferrer\">We Left Delhi, Our Child Stopped Crying<\/a><strong>)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &#8220;Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow \u00a0 \u00a0The important thing is not to stop imagining&#8221; &nbsp; This is the mantra of my life, Hi, I am Abhishek, a 17-year-old boy of a middle-class family from the city Lucknow aka &#8220;Nawabo ka Shehar&#8221; where there is a famous quote for this&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"btn btn-style\" href=\"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/patient-stories\/a-journey-from-depression-to-sitting-besides-amitabh-bachchan\/\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":22576,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[12344],"tags":[28651,28653,28650,28652],"yst_prominent_words":[28587,20249,17018,28584,28582,28334,28586,830,26268,15749,838,28613,1807,28585,28583,2063,3784,3788,28589,3937],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22204"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22204"}],"version-history":[{"count":20,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22204\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22578,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22204\/revisions\/22578"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22576"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22204"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22204"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22204"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gomedii.com\/blogs\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=22204"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}